What You Think, You Attract. What You Think, You Become.

I know this phrase is a cliche motivational line you hear everywhere that you shrug.

You kind of get it, but you don’t.

You kind of want to believe it, but you kind of feel like it’s bullsh*t.

Oh, another Tony Robbins’ crap….yada yada…

Even though I’ve always been an avid inspirational queen who loves all things self-development and motivational, I never really “felt” what the law of attraction really meant.

Until recently…. I have been struck by mental surprises on a daily basis.

Just when I had an epiphany about something before bed, I woke up with a new mindset and happened to encounter people with the exact same mindset the following days !

Mindset is so powerful.

Mindset changes your outlook on life.

Your outlook on life changes your core values.

And that changes everything you do on a daily basis as transcended into actions.

Just like when you go to school — you go to school and take a course to “develop your thinking process”, not just to “know more” about something.

Learning is not just about knowing more.

Learning is about developing and changing the way you look at things and how you apply that to life.

I have never really met people who share this view of the world before, but I guess it’s because I did not have this view of the world.

And once your mindset has been shifted, you forget who you once were.

You feel brand-new. You feel excited about this whole new world you have entered. You feel like you no longer feel connected to the people you used to be close to on a deeper level.

It is so powerful that I believe it’s the most important factor that determines connection and vibe — be it in friendship, relationship, or work.

It’s what I call emotional or mental wavelength.

I don’t like trying to change people, nor do I try to impose a new life concept onto someone.

But trust me,

What you think, you attract. What you think, you become.

Don’t change yourself or your outlook to fit in or to get appreciation.

When you want to attract something into your life, make sure your actions don’t contradict your desires.. Think about what you have asked for, and make sure that your actions are mirroring what you expect to receive, and that they’re not contradicting what you‘ve asked for. Act as if you are receiving it. Do exactly what you would do if you were receiving it today, and take actions in your life to reflect that powerful expectation. Make room to receive your desires, and as you do, you are sending out that powerful signal of expectation. 

― Rhonda Byrne, The Secret

Be open-minded and you’ll attract those that share the same soul.

And that’s the real deal.