A two-journal set for understanding your patterns in connection — with others and with yourself.

Most of us spend a lot of time thinking about love — who we choose, what we want, what we hope for. Far less time is spent understanding the patterns that shape how we actually relate once connection is present.

This set brings those patterns into focus from two directions.

How I Love explores how you relate in connection with others — across romantic relationships, friendships, and family dynamics.

The Inner Relationship turns the lens inward, focusing on how you relate to yourself in those same moments.

Together, they offer a clearer picture of what repeats beneath different situations — not to fix or change anything, but to understand what feels familiar, automatic, or learned over time.

Understanding how you love isn’t about improving your relationships. It’s about seeing yourself more clearly inside them. And clarity, over time, changes how automatic patterns feel.

This set explores:

• how you learned to relate
• how patterns repeat across different relationships
• how you show up in friendships
• how you choose closeness and pace
• how you protect yourself in love
• how connection affects your inner world
• how self-connection shapes how you relate

The focus is observation, not self-improvement.

Features:

• How I Love (30 pages) → external patterns in connection
• The Inner Relationship (20 pages) → internal patterns that sustain them
• Guided sentence-completion prompts
• Both come with one fillable version + one print-ready version

Instructions: After completing your purchase, you'll receive a separate email containing the download link. 

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